maybe your standards of what america should be are lower than hers.
It's not a matter of standards. Who is 100% satisfied with their country anyway? I would like to see some changes, but to say I have never been proud of my country would be ridiculous. I can't believe you are even trying to defend such a comment. There have been plenty of moment in Michelle Obama's life that she could have been proud of her country. Her husband was elected senator, her brother was hired by two very large universities to be the head mens basketball coach just 40 years or so removed from the civil rights struggle.
The woman rose from a blue collar southside Chicago beginning to multi-millionaire and soon-to-be first lady, in what other country could that happen?