You're better than this. More people voted for another candidate despite that map. Who's more out of touch?
The blue people who live in big cities are out of touch: people who live in New York, Chicago, Los Angeles and San Francisco, they're out of touch. "I don't know how Nixon was elected, no one I know voted for him." Those people. Meanwhile republicans own the presidency, both houses of Congress, 30 plus governorships, and the legislatures in 30 plus states. Don't worry though, you're still winning. Big time.