I may be wrong, but I think you guys are misinterpreting what Choz is trying to say.
Nothing wrong with transferring if its of mutual benefit.
I think what he's referring to is how we as fans just sit here and casually say, get the kid out of here, or he should transfer after one season. If the kid wants too fine. You guys cry about lack of stability out of one side of your mouth and then when a kid doesn't prove he belongs after a short stint, you want him out of the program for good.
David Cain would have been kicked to the curb by todays fanbase in a heartbeat. It's ok for a kid to be a role player or bench player for 4 years if the kid wants to be here. He earned the scholly.