Desco, please imagine how uncomfortable you'd be coaching a basketball game on national TV, without being able to control your bladder. And that's assuming that was the only issue. Have some empathy.
Again, I believe you guys misunderstand what I'm saying. My critique is not that he needed time off, or that it was too long, or that he tried to coach and found out he couldn't.
All of that is a reasonable and somewhat foreseeable effect of having the cancer he did, and the procedure he did. That's all understandable to me.
What I critize Steve Lavin for is how he left the program in his absence, and how he handled his absence. You are either able to lead the program or you're not, and you take a leave of absence.
It was a distraction and confusing to players and recruits when he was jetsetting around recruiting players but not coaching his own team in meaningful games.
Look at this timeline and explain to me how he handled this properly:
Fall 2010: Doctors detect cancer
April 2011: SL announces he has cancer and is undergoing treatment in the offseason. says "This past fall I didn't want to distract our team, but with the season behind us, we are now working with medical experts and taking the proper steps to tackle this health challenge head on" But yet, he didn't. At the time, Jim Calhoun wishes him luck and says ""I underwent surgery; he may not," Calhoun said. "But after the surgery I was back coaching in 12 days. Jim Boehim , who was diagnosed in 2001, says "We talked about a number of things. I think he's in real good position to handle this."
Boeheim said the treatment should not keep Lavin from his coaching responsibilities."Once he starts whatever he decides as a treatment he should be done with it within a short period of time," he said.
Our own Chris Monasch says: "We do not anticipate any disruption in his duties as our head coach, and thank all in advance for their support of Steve and respect for his family's privacy."
Oct 2011: SL has surgery.
Nov 2011: SL coaches 4 games.
Dec-Jan-Feb-March: SL coaches 0 games, attends games in a luxury suite, flys around the country recruiting. Lavin self describes himself as in "general manager mode", and may not return until next season.
April 2011: SL does studio analysis for CBSsports
How does that timeline make sense? As head coach you have a responsibility the organization to see that your absence is handled properly. CEOs have surgery and take leaves of absence, everyone wants them to take all the time they need to recover, but plan your absence in a responsible way. SL did not do that.
Contrary to popular opinion around here, I'm not a monster. I feel for the man and what he went through physcially, and I understand the embarrassing sideeffects his surgery can have.
Thats why I dont blame him for not coming back right away or for choosing not to coach game x, or game y. Come back when you're ready, I'm completely supportive of that.
But if you're feeling well enough to try to coach in November (4 games in a row), there is no way you can't coach in February or March. I just don't buy that.
And his job is to come back when he's able. Not before, but also certainly not to take more time than he needs either.
I also think his presence at games, but not coaching, is a distraction and frankly unheard of. If you can be there, then coach. If you can't coach, stay home and rest.
I hope this clears things up, because I believe I have a legitimate criticism that is being framed as if I'm not appreciating what the man went through. And that's not the case.