Frankly, until we can prove that we can take at least 1 game from a big team in these big time tournaments we do not deserve to be playing in them. I am not saying we should expect to win the tournaments or be a power in them, just asking for a pulse. 2 years straight, 2 times we fall flat. Last year was clearly worse but I would rather play in them when we actually have a contender team like next year. Young, inexperienced teams like ours need cupcakes early season to build confidence and chemistry- not Michigan State and VCU.
Actually, I don't mind these games or tournaments. You learn a bit about your team, and the team and coaches learn something about themselves and what they need to work on going forward after playing against good competition.
This isn't like college football where if you lose a couple of games or so, then you're likely done when it comes to the playoffs. You can lose early, and sometimes, often in college hoops, and then find yourself once conference play rolls around. Before you know it, the team can find itself in position for an NCAA Tournament bid. I'm not saying that's gonna happen with this group, but just speaking on how things can play out in college basketball.
Besides, these tournament fields are typically set a year or year and a half in advance. I'd rather see the team occasionally play some good comp versus getting "fat" in non-conference play with a bunch of cream puffs, and possibly, getting a false sense (some fans, and even the team) about the ability of the team.