What’s disappointing is that despite CMA and LJ not on the same page, the team was really coming together at the end of the year and poised to do something special, and the What’s ifs will linger.
It is disappointing that LJ saw that and still wants to transfer. What I cannot figure out l is that he is potentially hamstringing himself. If I compare this to a job.
You sign a contract with your boss for three years, and a year later your boss moves on. A new boss is hired and you look to leave that job. That is understandable because you wanted to work for your previous boss.
After thinking it through you decide to stay with the new boss and see how it goes. There are plenty of ups and downs, but it looks like things are moving in the Right direction. Moving forward your new boss is thinking that you are staying and is designing a team with you in mind.
Secretly you are not happy and start working on other options, despite having one year left on your contract. You boss finds out, is not happy and asks you to make a decision. You decide to leave.
Technically you are unemployed but you are good at what you do so finding a new job shouldn’t be too tough. The problem is:
-Will your boss let you out of your contract or will make you stay out of the workforce for a year.
-Anywhere you go you are the new employee and all the experience and clout you built in your previous organization is gone as well as benefits sucks as vacation and sick days.
-Despite being talented you tried to leave your new boss twice, if things do not work out do you 1. Come crawling back to your boss and be in the dog house for on year or 2. Will he even let you come back so you end up going to a worse situation than before.
-Maybe if you finished out your contract and there’s an option for another year (grad transfer), you could have turned that down and your boss would be more inclined to help you, or at the very least you could leave without any strings attached.
The hard thing about leaving this late in the game is that he rest of the team is being hung out to dry. LJ has to do what’s best for him in the end, he is hurting his teammates. Both can be true.