In fairness, I present some facts for consideration:
RJ lost his best friend in the summer
Lost his Aunt and Uncle
Lost his Grandmother last Friday
Mom's been in and out of hospital, leaving him with responsibility for his siblings from time to time
Family lives in Philadelphia
RJ goes to college in NY
RJ views himself as the family's hope for future financial stability if/when he makes it to the NBA
A young man facing all of these issues, with the pressure and stress he has on him, may have some maturity issues to overcome.
He deserves a break from the criticism of this board or any other. We are better than that. Think about it!