I don't know if there is anything manly about staying in a situation you didn't sign up for or feel unhappy about. Nothing weak about seeking better situation.
LJ is a great kid and great competitor. If he can go to better situation and play deep into NCAA Tournament or go pro then he should.
If I was the coaching staff I'd recognize this situation already and push for a decision one way or another. Can't have your best player being unhappy heading into the season which can disrupt culture you desperately need to establish.
If St.John's screwed him and hired someone like Mullin or Roberts, I'd understand him leaving.
But that's not what happened here. The University did right by the players, so every one of them should have stayed put.
There should be some feeling for the program from LJ. How have they wronged him? Why is he looking to leave? Maybe, IDK, it's him, and not Coach Anderson that is the problem?
Of course, kids should be allowed to go to a better situation, but not for any reason. It's made a joke of the transfer rule. Deal with some adversity and work through it. LJ should take some ownership of the season he had. If he wants to be a leader, ok. We all want that, too. Stop shaking your head and throwing your arms up in protest on every play.
This, childish behavior, btw, is something I've noticed our guys are doing a LOT less since Coach Anderson took over. Don't you agree?